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When you can’t afford to pay the utilities

When you can't afford to pay the utilities

I don’t consider myself a financial expert or budget guru. My budget and financial advice comes from someone that has been there. I know what it’s like to get a shut off notice in the mail. I also know the feeling of seeing little to no money in my bank account and wondering how I’m going to make it until the next payday. So I may not be able to solve your financial problems, but I can offer some simple tips that will hopefully help guide you in the right direction.

When you can’t afford to pay the utilities

1. Evaluate your utilities.

I know it can be overwhelming when every utility bill is due (or past due) at the same time. Evaluate and list your utilities in order of priority by asking yourself the following:

Is my health and safety dependent on this utility?

  • If yes, then it should be listed at the top of your list.
  • If no, consider whether or not you could live without this utility (i.e. internet).
  • If you can live without it, get rid of it immediately and apply the funds towards your other bills.

2. Contact the utility company.

Ignoring your bills is not going to make them go away nor will it help your current situation. Most utility companies can provide you with payment arrangements or even allow you to skip a payment depending on your current financial situation. Generally, if someone in the household is elderly, disabled or has a serious illness, you may ask for an extension on your bill due date. However, this may require you to provide documentation from a doctor’s office. Utilities companies are not out to get you (even if it seems that way!). Shutting you off is not to their benefit, so make sure you call them and find out what you can do to get caught up.

3. Seek help.

I know this is not always easy to do, but if you find yourself in a very tough financial situation you need to seek help. Your best source is going to be the utility company. Not only will they know who you can contact, they may also have an application that they could mail you directly to get the process started. Eligible low-income customers may seek help from financial assistance programs such as the Low-Income Home Energy Assistance Program (LIHEAP). You may also contact your local United Way agency or similar organization to find out where you can get financial help. Most will require you provide proof of income, household size and other household information.

4. Get creative.

My family has been through its share of financial bumps. When money was tight and we were faced with a situation where a bill was due or an unexpected expense would arise, we got creative to come up with the funds. It could be from selling something of value we knew we could live without to cutting back drastically on other expenses to cover essentials. They say “necessity is the mother of invention” and I completely agree. When times get tough instead of falling into a pit of despair, try to figure out how you can make your situation better and prevent it from happening again. Can you lower your food expenses? Or simply budget better?

I truly believe that setting up a budget and re-evaluating it each month is key to staying on top of your finances.  If you don’t know where to start my friend Jessi of The Budget Mama has a free eBook to help you get started. Simply click here to go to her site and download.

I know it’s not easy being in a rough financial spot. However, it’s never too late to turn your situation around and my prayer is that you’re able to find the help you need. Please feel free to leave any questions you may have below and I’ll be glad to help as much as I can.

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Friday 11th of March 2016

Wow!...I could not have read this at a better time! although unfortunately for me I am expecting to be shut off this morning March 11 on my birthday :( and my little boy will turn 10 this Monday, the 14th. I have contacted my local assistance programs but unfortunately they are not able to see me until Tuesday the 15th. meaning i will go without power from the 11th to the 15th depending. I am a single mother of a 2 year old & almost ten year old. I am currently unemployed but actively/ eagerly searching for work. As of right now my only income is food stamps & whatever child support my children may receive which has been non exisistant....lord I pray for a miracle. I feel like I'm drowning & failing. as a mother to my children this is my responsibility to provide for them and make sure that they never go without. & I have failed. #Keep pushingthrough

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Your's is one of the few blogs that shares such helpful ideas for when money is beyond tight! Thank you for encouraging me! Sending many blessings your way!

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